Thursday, September 24, 2009
Lesson on life
As I was waiting for him to walk off the bus this afternoon, I could see the bus driver waving for me to come to the bus. As Garrett started down the stairs, I saw the big tears in his eyes. He ran to me, and said, "I don't want to ever ride the bus again." Okay slow down, little guy.
Garrett explained that it was hot on the bus, so his nose started to bleed and he couldn't get to his tissues in his backpack or pocket. He's two "friends" that were sitting by him, started to make fun of him, and moved to another seat leaving him alone. They then encouraged others to say things to him like, "You're gross!" "You're sick!" and "Nobody wants to be around a bloody boy!" I know that six and seven year old boys are immature and even silly sometimes, meaning to hurt, but it still hurts when your the same age and on the other end. The two little neighbor boys that did this are never been my favorite. In fact, we don't associate with then other then riding on the bus with them for ten minutes both ways. Fortunately they are in First and Second grade, and make up good excuses for not being able to play with them. Also thank heavens started in October, their mother goes back to work and they'll be staying at the after school program. I know I'm mean but I don't like em and would LOVE to eliminate them from Garrett's life.
After calming him down and myself down. Getting his blood nose to stop. Talking a little about the situation, I decided to distract him until we both could claim down, and have Keith the voice of reason chime in. Garrett wanted to watch Scoobie Doo and I made soup. As I was stewing over Garrett's situation, I realized that he needs to have these experiences so build confidence, self esteem and understanding about how to treat other. Having a blood nose is not a bad thing and you know how to handle them when they happen, even it Mom, Dad, your teacher or any other adult it there to help you. You are a great boy no matter what other say to or about you. You need to stand up for yourself. So tomorrow you need to tell, (your friends) that what they did hurt your feelings and explain why, when and how you handle blood noses when they happen. But most importantly, I want Garrett to learn to have compassion for others with everyone else is laughing at them, whatever the reason.
Monday, September 21, 2009
Things I love right now
I love that it is finally FALL
I love it when Garrett comes home and eats bananas on the counter like a monkey.
I love it when Kendall play make believe. She's great at pretending to move make believe objects around the house.
I love that Taryn still love to play with my hair, even though it is a little painful.
I love that we have a new baby coming to our house.
36 weeks and 50 lbs
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Garrett's first day of school.
This a Garrett with his buddies Julia and Anthony at the bus stop. Yes, they are 7 and 8 years old and Garrett just turned 6! Those Jones' genes are amazing!
Note: Garrett is starting the year off in size 2 shoes, 7-8 pants and shirt. Let's all take bets on what he'll be at the end of the year.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Kendall's off to Preschool
Yippy! We got into Grace Children's Learning Center for preschool. We have been on the waiting list this summer, so I had pretty much given up hope when they called me the Monday before school started to let us know we had were in.
Friday, September 11, 2009
9 months is not forever
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Is anyone really listening?
But one night, I was reading from the D &C where is says, "And if any people shall rise against this people, that thine anger be kindled against them," Then I read the next two lines, Kendall, who had her eyes closed and I thought was asleep, stopped me.
"Mom"
"Yes, Kendall"
"You said my name in the scriptures"
With a chuckle, "Yes, I did"
Dead serious "Why?"
Insert my definition of "kindled"
Then she smiles, "Oh, Thanks Mom"
I continue reading from the scriptures. Thinking both the kids are asleep. Two minutes later, Garrett mutters.
"Mom"
"Yes, Garrett"
"Is the word Garrett in the scriptures?"
Laughing once again, "No, I don't think so"
"Mom, Garrett means fighting spear, and they fight in the scriptures, so I'm in em"
"Sure, go to sleep"
My little Co-pay Baby
Anyways, I ran downstairs to find two of those cute little toes swollen with the toenails slanted vertical and not horizontal to the toe. I called Keith, who told me to call the Warners, for advice. The poor Warners get bugged by us so much, but I don't know what I'd do without them. They suggested I go in to the Doctor because it sounded like there was a hemorrhage behind the toenail that was building up pressure, plus I don't have it in me to cut off the toenail so that I didn't ripe.
Garrett's B-day
5. Garrett is all about the fun! He gets this trait from me. Everyone is a potential new friend and a good time can be made anywhere. He has great social skills. Recently as we have had the Merchants and the Walkers over more, who both have girls Garrett's age, noticed that Garrett is a much different boy around girls rather then his boy buddies. With boys he is silly, louder, fun loving and rough, but around girls he's a calm, quiet, easy going, pleaser. Whatever he's "girl" friends want, he is quick a oblige. He is going to be a great husband, just like his father.
4. That adorable face of his. I've always thought he is so cute but some how he gets more handsome every year, once again, just like his father. I can't wait to see what he' ll look like as a teenager and an adult. He's sweet and handsome, a combination the ladies are not going to know how to resist him. I also love his big boxy Jones' hands and feet.
3. I love that he loves to snuggle and hug. I know this won't last but for now I'm going to enjoy every minute of it. Having snuggle time with me is a priority to Garrett. Few things make him happier then laying on my bed watching Scooby Doe and snuggling.
2. Even though he wants a brother so bad, he LOVES his sisters and is a GREAT big brother. Right now his favorite distraction for them is to play owner and doggies. Obviously, he plays the owner, who send them on errands to fetch needed toys. He's so sweet to always tell them how pretty they look in their dress up clothes. He is a great example for his sisters, and loves to teach them new things. The girls are so blessed to have Garrett to watch over them and follow his example in life.
1 He has a strong and sweet testimony of Jesus Christ and He's plan for Garrett. I have to give credit to the Christian school Garrett attended last year, Garrett knows his Bible stories, and is mindful of what pleases Heavenly Father and what doesn't because of his school experience. They read and talked about a Bible story everyday from The Children's Bible, Timeless Stories for Children. Garrett has memorized all 100 stories so that he can "read" or retell every story in "his" bible to his sisters. He can even tell you the moral of each story. We also read to him from the Book of Mormon every night, and I 'm amazed at how much he know takes in.
Garrett has always been a tender heart too. This he inherited from his father. He wants to please and is quick to apologize when he does wrong.
Baby Thumblina
As soon as we found out that we were having a girl, we started to put names on the table for review by the family. Keith of course throw out his favorites that he has been throwing on the table since Garrett, Taylor, and Reagan. Both good names but not the names that I want to be calling out in my house.
Outer Banks
This was our third annual trip to the beaches of the Outer Banks in North Carolina. We love to go to the bottom of Hatteras Island to a little dive hotel that is right on the beach. Being that I've been HUGE and pregnant two out of the three times we have been there, being close to the beach is a must.
Jeffery Merchant better start worrying, because I'm afraid that my son has a crush on his daughter.
This was also Garrett year to learn to boogie board. He could not get enough of it. Every other year, he liked the beach but wanted to go to the pool just as much but this year he never wanted to leave the surf. He didn't even want to build a sand castle or be buried.
Keith also took him out beyond where the waves break to snorkel and dive for shells. I think he was a bit amazed that there were fish so close to where he was swimming. Keith quickly realized that there was also jelly fish out there. Keith got stunging a few time but Garrett didn't. Oddly even I went away quite quick and wasn't that painful to Keith. He's no wimp!
The kids were fascinated by Mike fishing in the ocean and actually catching fish.
Kendall and Maggie had so much fun chasing the waves or the waves chasing them, and collecting shells.
Taryn wasn't so much into the waves and salty water this year, so she spend most of her time collecting shells and making Sand Pies.